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Anonymous asked:

To make a very long story short, me and my bf was suppose to go on a date and he canceled the day of and said lets do it Friday. So I got mad and said forget it I don’t want to go anymore. So he got mad at me for saying that and called me a loser, so I didn’t txt him after that. So 6 days went by and we haven’t talked so I txted him the other day and asked if we were done like (with our relationship) and he just never replied. But its been a week now and we haven’t talk and I don’t know whats going on.

Violet responded:

Have you tried calling instead of texting him?  Just asking.  If you haven’t it might be a good idea to find out.

If he’s ending your relationship because of this, then he’s not worth your time.  Talking in a relationship is very important.  Texting, while convenient, does not convey emotions well.  If it’s something important, call them up and ask to see them in person.  Discuss what you need to calmly and nicely, regardless of what it is, and try to work it out best you can.

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